Where we have dirty politics, dirty business is yet another characteristic of our country. Corruption, cheating, hypocrisy are underlying factors of everything that is associated with this society of ours. Please do not get taken away by my little patriotism for this godforsaken country or my negative thinking, I want you to know something that is seriously important.
Following the footsteps of West, girl friend-boy friend has become a common trend. Having so-called love bird/s is fun, but with this, if not careful, a person enters the world of agony as well. Females, clever may be but not sensible, are the main victim of this pain. They get easily deluded by the “love talks” of guys and fell an easy prey to the rapist mafia. The mafia is ripping them of their dignity to its fullest extent: first by abducting their innocence and secondly, by making a video clip of that entire scene and selling it in the market. Furthermore, some guys make these pornographic videos with their cell phones for the sake of fun (I would love to use the “f” word for them but can’t). These clips are uploaded on internet for an easy access and some mobile shops transfer these into the cell phones of their customers for a price ranging from hundreds to thousands. Karachi, Lahore, Dubai and Mumbai are the main markets for the local porn videos.
It will not be justified to put the entire blame on males; females too are responsible for their doomed fate. When they know there is a huge cultural difference between East and West, why bother bedding with their “thought-to-be-price-charming”? Knowing that we have male dominancy here, why to go for something that is bound to humiliate them then their opposite sex? True that physical temptation is hard to resist, but then they should be ready to taste pain of endless miseries.
All I have to say is: whatever you do, the consequences cannot be ignored unless you commit suicide and shut your eyes forver.
November 14, 2007 at 7:16 pm
its a bitter fact of our society bt wht can b done
starplus s so dominating in houses………n making minds to thnk y there r so many restrictions in our society……….gals ofcourse suffer more than boys bt if u advice a gal its of no any help as every1 wanna has her own experience…….it definitly lead to wrng way
November 14, 2007 at 7:25 pm
hey brd!!this really is a need-to-be-felt topic!!these days dunno where our young gen z headin to..?which dirxn ve they chosen for thr life..!!the height o vulgarity is waaaaaaaaaaaaay beyond the word embarassin..!watever they do,be it thr thought k its thr own life but in the end ths is all wat our dear country has to suffer!!(apart from the disgrace they gonna bring to themselves n thr family )the humiliation..the disgrace they brought to ths country is just beyond words..v cant even call ourselvs pakistanis proudly..!!its a shame!!Allah karay all the young gals take a break for a lil ponderin wat they r plannin 2 do before thr’s no way out!!
only one objection brd!in my opinion even aftr suicide one such person wont b forgiven!!Allah ka to apna ma’amla hai um talkin abt ppl here!even aftr ur suicide,consequences wud be faced..rather wud HAVE to b faced by her family..till eternity!
n one thing…let the gals b blamed but cant v even hope k guyz wud ever change..?islam is not only for galz..!i don understand this..but y on earth males r released from this blame juz by sayin it’s in thr NATURE..true it is!but come on!!o wel..um confused…..can any 1 help me out here!!?
November 16, 2007 at 7:00 pm
dere s nothin 2 b cnfusd in islam but da matter v say wo to larka hy
its juz our society setup dat makes ds statement
there r equal orders 4 both boy n gal. both shud b punished equally bt ds s our mind set up only gal suffers nt da boy
November 18, 2007 at 8:00 pm
T o put it simply, ladies, we have “male dominancy” here which is of course quite pathetic. Nothing can be done about it, unfortunately.